Many people talk about confidence, self-esteem, and relationships online.
But one man says the reality of being judged by appearance is something most people don’t truly understand.
So he decided to record a very personal video explaining what his life has been like.
And his story is difficult to hear.
He says his struggles started when he was very young.
Growing up, he says making friends was never easy.
According to him, people often avoided him or found ways to distance themselves.
At the time he didn’t think too much about it. But as he got older, things started to become more obvious.
The first time he remembers being called “ugly” came from people he trusted.
When he was around 13 years old, he says he finally started spending time with a group of older teenagers.
But instead of support, he says they were the first ones who openly called him ugly.
That moment stuck with him.
As he grew older, he began noticing something else.
While other kids his age were experiencing their first crushes and relationships, he says things were very different for him.
He remembers watching girls at school chase other boys around the playground.
But no one ever chased him.
And he started wondering why.
When he turned 15, he says he finally started trying to find love.
That’s when the rejection began.
He claims that between the ages of 15 and 17 he reached out to hundreds of girls online.
By his estimate, the number of rejections was somewhere between 400 and 500.
And he says nearly every one of them turned him down.
Some were polite.
Others were brutally honest.
Eventually, he says he stopped trying altogether.
After years of rejection, he decided to give up on dating and focus on simply talking to people who were also struggling in life.
That decision eventually led him to his first relationship.
But unfortunately, it didn’t turn out the way he hoped.
The relationship lasted seven years… but he says it was incredibly painful.
According to him, the woman he dated treated him badly.
He claims she often insulted him, ignored him, and even made him walk several meters behind her in public.
He says she rarely showed affection and frequently made him feel like he wasn’t good enough.
Despite that, he tried everything he could to make the relationship work.
He says he did everything he could to be a good partner.
He gave daily back massages.
He bought gifts whenever he could afford them.
He tried to change parts of his personality just to make her happy.
But he says it never seemed to be enough.
Eventually, the relationship ended.
After the breakup, he hoped things might finally change.
He began trying to date again.
But according to him, the rejection returned almost immediately.
He says many women simply told him he wasn’t their type.
Others, he claims, were much more direct.
One experience in particular still stands out to him.
He once arranged what he thought would be a perfect date.
He traveled over an hour to meet the woman.
But when he arrived, she never approached him.
Later, he says she told him she saw him at the station but decided not to speak because she thought he looked too unattractive.
At that point, he says he began losing hope.
He even created an automated program on a dating app that liked hundreds of profiles every day.
After thousands of attempts, he says not a single person responded.
That’s when things began to feel overwhelming.
Today, he says he feels extremely depressed and isolated.
According to him, comments about his appearance have followed him throughout his entire life from classmates, strangers, and even people close to him.
And after years of dealing with it, he says it has taken a serious emotional toll.
Now he believes the only solution might be surgery.
He says he is currently waiting for plastic surgery in hopes of improving the features he feels insecure about.
In his view, changing his appearance might finally give him the chance to live a more normal life.
But despite everything, he still shared one important message.
He says there are people in the world who can look past appearance and see someone for who they truly are.
The problem, he believes, is simply finding them.
And that’s why he decided to tell his story.
Because he knows there may be others out there feeling the same way.
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